Ah, the importance of deliverance. It has allot of meanings, mostly biblical, but for today, deliverance means something entirely different.

When a person speaks peer-to-peer, peer-to-audience, peer-to-the world or family or friends, relatives, it means that they are delivering message. It could be important. It could be note-worthy. It could be the difference between life and death. It’s importance of how it is said — how it is uttered — will make all the difference since.

Choices

A person stands up in front of a crowded room — a crowded platform (train, bus, plane) and this person delivers a speech, advice, information, facts, figures; whatever they believe will inspire, motivate, turn the crowd to their way of thinking and behaving.

This person determines ahead of time how they’re going to deliver that particular message to the waiting crowd.

In today’s business world, there are still people, upper level management, supervisors, authority figures who listen to what you, the speaker, is trying to convey, make understood, or shared with the rest of us.

Your voice determines how well or how badly we the audience receive this message.

Is your voice thick with emotion? Dripping with moisture so that every word is taken in and swallowed whole? The audience agrees with you 100% and does not look for hidden motives?

Is your voice suave and sophisticated, smooth and oily, so that your listening audience is held spellbound to what you’re saying. They are held ‘in the palm of your hand.’

Is your voice raw and heated? Passionate? Compelling? Are you telling your audience what they know already or are you angering them to where thought, cares, responsibilities, and accountability for their actions no long exist and they are free to riot in the streets!

Is your voice soothing? Are you protecting a loved one? Are you calming a hurt child who needs to be free of this sudden pain?

What voice do you use when delivering a message? Is it important that you know what voice to use or do you even care?

Some people deliver simple statements but their voice ends in a question even when they’re not questioning.

Some people slur their words. They don’t enunciate. Their words are not distinct, clear, and crisp. People sometimes mistake what is said and fill in the blanks themselves even if it’s the wrong words that they are using or implying.

Some people speak in soft voices, but carry a big stick. Do you speak that way, but people are still afraid of you? Afraid of what pain you might inflict with your words? Afraid of what type of harm you might stir up with your voice?

Some people use their voices like whips egging people on and then retreating to a safer place so that when the blame is thrown around, these people will not take responsibility for stirring up the masses. These people hide among their audience confident that their camouflage words will protect them.

Trust me

The day will come when you will need to take a stand and decide what kind of voice you will use when you speak to an audience. Only then will you get the desired results you need to sell them your product(s), book(s), idea(s), and you. Only then will you become successful as a speaker when you finally decide the importance of your delivery!

 

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Find your Passion by learning How 2 Use: Effective Communication Skills which is made up of four (4) major skill sets:  Mastering Interpersonal Skills, Strategizing Presentation Skills, Clear, Precise and Concise Speaking Skills, and Positive Leadership Skills.

How does a woman CEO or Empty Nester use their Passion once they find it? They incorporate PASSION into their very being. It becomes a part of their arsenal to break through the ‘glass ceiling’ and become Mentors to the vast majority of spiritual futures.

One on One sessions with peers, teach Passion in seminar/webinar groups (remote or in person), become an Expert Witness, Write articles, Blogs, Vlogs (video and writing) and E-books.

Ignite Others to Find and Use their Passion by Motivation, Inspiration, Podcasting, Radio Talk Host and provide a Call 2 Action Plan so you leave a behind a Ripple in the women’s community.

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Present: Skills

A woman’s place on the corporate ladder is based on four primary skill sets that can qualify a CEO or Empty Nester in the corporate world. They are: Interpersonal, Presentation, Speaking and Interviewing.

How important are they? They can determine how far a CEO or Empty Nester can go. Through the ‘glass ceiling and beyond or stuck in the mire of administrative work.

We will learn and practice these skills within a live listening and viewing audience so that when you graduate from Present: Skills, your battle is already half-way won.

These skills are: Interpersonal, Presentation, Speaking and Interviewing. Sub groups include, but not limited to listening, responsibility and accountability, questioning, problem solving, thinking on one’s feet, verbal and non-verbal communication, assertiveness, body and voice language, manners, social awareness, self-management, inform, motivate, inspire, interviewing (social, business, career), speaking, clearly, concisely and precisely.

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Voice Personality

Voice personality is a first impression of who you are. To find your voice personality, one must listen to how one sounds. Speaking clearly, concisely, and concisely. What I term as my golden rule for women CEO’s and Empty Nesters to remember always.

“Mean what you say. Say what you Mean!”

How do you do that? By finding the right voice personality that fits who you are. Your personality. Other ways to express yourself and keep within the boundaries of your voice are tone, pitch, enunciation, vocabulary, psychology, and how you say what you mean.

When dealing with a peer, boss, higher management, or even your spouse, what you say and how you say is very important. Choosing the right words. Selecting the right tone. Keeping your voice even, not cracking, whispering, or ending your sentences in a question are all part of your voice personality.

Choose which type of voice best suits you when you’re in the business world might be entirely different than the one you use on your family, relatives, spouse, or friends.

Find your voice. Develop its personality. First impressions always count and sets the mood. Whatever mood the person is after, good, bad, or indifferent.

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Master Interpersonal Skills

We all use them at one time or another. However, not all of us use them together. Women CEO’s and Empty Nesters find their interpersonal skills are up to current standards. Current standards are Industry standards. Industry standards determine promotions and salary increases, recognition, value, and brand.

Want to get ahead in corporate America? Want your spouse and family to take you seriously? Want to find what you’re seeking after your last child departs from the house? You need to practice your interpersonal skills and use them on a daily basis until these skills become a part of your career, business, and mind set.

The 10 skills necessary to succeed and thrive are: Listening, Assertiveness, Problem Solving, Thinking on Feet, Verbal and non-verbal Communication, Responsibility and Accountability, Questioning, Manners, Social Awareness, and Self-Management.

Once you master these skills, then you’re on your way to success.

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Interviewing Techniques

There are all types of interviews. And no two interviews are alike. The interview for a job differs from an interview to get a loan which is different from an interview you give when fact finding for a research paper.

Listening, asking questions, speaking clearly, breathing, tone, pitch, these are all parts of how an interview is conducted.

By taking Ms. Cauldwell’s course, you learn how to use these techniques to get the desired results women CEO’s and Empty Nesters require to make a difference and enable their clients to get the best possible value for their interview value.

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Ask Me

In today’s busy world, people are afraid to ask questions fearing they are either stupid or not relevant. However, when you chose to ASK ME a question, you’ll not only get an answer that’s pertinent to your question, but you’ll also receive a sample, example, or a practical application to that question so everything is spelled out for you.

Question are an important part of any position in business, in personal relationships, and in other aspects of your life.

ASK ME becomes your guarantee that you understand the problem and recognize that there are answers that when applied can remedy any problem that might occur.

Learn how to ask questions and apply the answers so that everyone wins.

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